"Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win" The flip side of "don't sweat the small stuff" is fighting for things we care about. At the same time, we should try to avoid battles we have absolutely no chance of wi...nning. Things that help us be the person we most want to be are the things worth fighting for. Those that don't have much impact, or that may even detract from our best self, need to be let go.
Thanks to my co-worker Barbara for this thoughtful quote